I started doing this several years ago. In 2018 my word was ‘unstoppable’. It reminded me to keep moving toward my
dreams, and that the only one to stop me from pursuing it would be me.
For 2019 a short phrase was my focus “stay the course”. I was reminded to keep moving forward on the
course God has set me on (Psalm 119:1).
I do not yet know what is at the end of the path, but I know He is with
When I look at the year 2020, so many references to vision
come to mind. I argued with myself on
the word ‘vision’ because I figure everyone will be using it.
Then I read Romans 12:3 “Be honest in your evaluation of
yourself…” Wow. I have been posting and
teaching on stopping the lies of negative self-talk and replacing them with
truth. God’s truth.
I am discouraged today, feeling down, telling myself so many
lies. Writing this post reminds me I am doing exactly what I teach against.
The word “REFLECTION” came to mind. I found a picture I use in some of my illustrations of a woman smiling at herself in the mirror. I added the word REFLECTION at the top and wrote out Romans 12:3.
This is my word for 2020.
REFLECTION. This year I am
reminded to be honest in my evaluation of myself. I will reflect on who God
says I am.
It is with this word I will conducting additional “Defeating
the Lies of Negative Self-Talk” courses in-person and online. It is with this word I will begin leading
some “Boundaries” courses using material from Doctors Cloud and Townsend. It is with this word I will be unstoppable,
as I stay the course, and reflect honestly on God’s view of me.
I love how I can look back and see the progress God has made
in me by reviewing past words. Each one
leads to the next step of my spiritual growth in Him.
What is your word for 2020? Where will it lead you? How can
I help you?
With Thanksgiving approaching, social media is filled with posts of being grateful.
When I stop to truly look at what I have to be grateful for, my heart rejoices. Sometimes, I truly must stop and look for these things. It is so easy some days to just wallow in pity for something that isn’t the way I want it to be. Then I intentionally seek out those things/people/etc for which I am so thankful.
It’s like taking off blinders to see the true picture.
I wonder, what are you grateful for today? What about that makes you thankful?
Spend some time in your journal with a heart of praise and remind yourself what you have to be grateful for.
For years I have received mixed messages. As a strong woman if I spoke up or stepped out I was criticized for being headstrong, over-confident, bossy.
Then when I didn’t speak out or step us I was being timid.
I couldn’t win. Especially if I was trying to please others. There is no way to please everyone. This then leads to inner confusion.
I cannot please everyone. That was hard enough to learn. But then I heard someone tell about a time she was in a meeting and was told “you are intimidating’. Another responded “is she intimidating or are you intimidated?”
Is she intimidating, or are you intimidated?
I stopped to consider this. I am not responsible for their thoughts or feelings. I only have control over mine. While I will not intentionally set out to hurt someone, just because they are hurt or upset, it doesn’t mean I did something wrong.
This comment made me stop to remember that. Perspective makes all the difference.
What is something someone said that stopped you in your tracks causing you to reconsider your perspective?
I find it easy to lose my confidence. It could start from a word someone says, or a glance, a feeling I have done something wrong. Once I let a pin hole of doubt invade by confidence, it continually seeps, like a deflated balloon.
There are so many ways my confidence slowly fills back up, but I never notice what or how. I certainly hold onto those things that deflate me, but haven’t spent much time noticing when my confidence is growing.
Thus, the Journal prompt for this week. “I feel most confident when I….”
I want to encourage you this week to take note of what deflates and inflates your confidence.
I battle the voices declaring who I am when I look in the mirror. Voices of negativity, of not being good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, loved.
Over time I began to look differently at that view. It was no longer my eyes, but God’s eyes looking back at me.
I am made in His image (Genesis 1:27), His handiwork (Ephesians 2:10). He knew me and loved me before I was created (Psalm 139:13-16). I am a child of God (1 John 3:1), a daughter of the King, a Princess!!
I smile when I put on my plastic $5 party store tiara. I am a princess! This simple item brings me back to child-like faith. I can set aside my tears and fears and fell wrapped in the arms of God. He loves me. I am beautiful. I am enough.